Dads and Doulas

Have you ever asked a new dad about the birth of his child?

The corner of his mouth turns up as he looks down, remembering the moment, his eyes begin to sparkle as he composes himself to share this life changing memory with you. He thinks of how to phrase it or how much to tell.

In the end, he just stays, "It was amazing, SHE was so strong..and I was SO glad our doula was there!" Sometimes, Dads and partners just need to know that doulas and care providers 'have their back' so to speak.

Some dads want to be engaged with the experiences that their partner is going through during pregnancy; the physical changes of growing a baby (except maybe labor itself), feeling kicks (from the inside), & the questions and affection from strangers.

Some dads want to know things are 'taken care of' because they don't see themselves as 'doing so well' during the actual birth (and maybe don't want to admit it), and a doula's constant care helps to assuage their protective nature.

Inside, dads are unsure how to get control of something they have no control over...birth. So they make their partner a protein packed breakfast, ask her how she is feeling, rub her swollen feet and worry how well they will handle birth. And the big question, Will she be ok? Will the baby be ok? What if something goes wrong?

Dads/partners need doulas. Some don't know yet why, but they've been told to 'hire a doula'. They may be skeptical at first, but then they meet their doula(s)..."Can she really do that?" "She seems to know what she's talking about." "They stay by your side the entire labor and birth?" "Am I off the hook?" "NO, she's going to support me too." "Give me cues and pointers to comfort my wife." "Wow, she's a rock star!"

Doulaing dads is an amazing part of being a doula. Partners don't get the opportunity to physically experience pregnancy, but they go through changes of their own.

Doulas provide education to help understand the physical & emotional changes of pregnancy; what's normal?, interpreting medical jargon, & understanding choices they have. With a doula's guidance dads feel more connected to the pregnancy, confident in their ability to support their partners & in their knowledge of the upcoming labor & birth.

"Doulas are worth it!"

Allison RollansFebruary 3, 2017PartnersComment

“Having a doula was such an amazing experience. They were there for me throughout my pregnancy answering any questions or concerns that came up, no matter what time of day. They talked me and my husband through every stage and step of labor, helping us ease our worries.”

M.P. — 1st time parent

"High Country Doulas proved to be an excellent resource to turn to when approaching the many unknown situations we would encounter during our first pregnancy. I am glad we made the decision to work with them and continue to be thankful for their help."

– Tim S. First-time dad

"Having someone there who could help us weigh our options and make informed decisions was crucial. I am so glad I chose to work with High Country Doulas and highly recommend them!"

– Parker C. First-time mom

"From the first trimester through early postpartum, our doula team was a source of wisdom and compassion. Thanks to their support, I felt like an active participant in my care, and I came away with only happy memories of my birth experience."

– Ariel S. First-time mom

"We could not have asked for a more positive birth experience and know that much of this is because of High Country Doulas. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping us bring our daughter into the world!"

– Ashley P. Professor, ASU & First time mom

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“Kaitlyn helped me so much during my birth. She was so supportive and kind.”

"These ladies create such a genuinely loving atmosphere in all that they do. You are an exceptional group of women!"

"I can honestly say I would not have survived those subsequent weeks of motherhood physically and mentally without their help. They are simply incredible!”

"I made a last-minute decision to hire a doula and my husband and I are so glad we did. We highly recommend High Country Doulas. If you're on the fence---go for it!"

"High Country Doulas proved to be an excellent resource to turn to when approaching the many unknown situations we would encounter during our first pregnancy. I am glad we made the decision to work with them and continue to be thankful for their help."

"Having someone there who could help us weigh our options and make informed decisions was crucial. I am so glad I chose to work with High Country Doulas and highly recommend them!"

"From the first trimester through early postpartum, our doula team was a source of wisdom and compassion. Thanks to their support, I felt like an active participant in my care, and I came away with only happy memories of my birth experience."

"Every aspect of our doula experience was helpful, from prenatal classes to postpartum care!”

"We could not have asked for a more positive birth experience and know that much of this is because of High Country Doulas. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping us bring our daughter into the world!"

"The staff was extremely professional and flexible...The service is 5 stars!"

"Our doula listened to every want and need...she even knew what I needed before I did!"

"Our doula helped my husband feel deeply connected to every aspect of the experience"